In an African Studies Quarterly paper titled "Domestic, Regional and International Protection of Women Against Discrimination: Constraints and Possibilities," Mojubaolu Olufunke Okome made references to Ifi Amadiume's book, "Male Daughters, Female Husbands: Gender and Sex in African Society." In the book, Amadiume talked about the culture in Nnobi where childless women acquire 'wives' who bear children for them. These women are referred to as female husbands. By bearing children through this form of arrangement, the women gain power and status within the society - power and status childlessness would have denied them.
There are also those referred to as male daughters. These are women designated not to marry but to stay at their parents' home and have kids. This usually happens when a couple has no male child. The daughter in effect becomes the male daughter. She sacrifices the chance to go out and marry. She stays at her parents' home to have babies with the hope of giving birth to a male child who would inherit the parents' property and continue to uphold the family name and maintain the lineage.
In his book, "The Liberty of Man and Other Essays" His Royal Highness, Igwe Edmond Ezeokoli II of Nnobi, wrote about the propitiation and abolition of Osu caste system in Nnobi. He narrated his personal effort that led to the severance of the Osu from the deities that once held them sway and the integration of the former victims into the mainstream Nnobi society. The ceremony performed on December 30, 1971, was led by the Chief Priest of Idemili Nnobi and was witnessed by traditional rulers of neighboring towns and the 3000 year-old ancient OFO IDEMILI. After Nnobi, neighboring towns like Umuoji, Awka-Etiti, and Oba followed the Nnobi example.
This was the progressive and liberal Nnobi that I was born in, but more importantly, the Nnobi that was born in me. For the first fifteen years of my life, I had no sense of allegiance to any other constituted authority than that of my hometown. During the 70s, my family spent seven years living in Ogbunike, specifically at the staff quarters of Women's Training College (WTC) Ogbunike where my Dad was teaching. One summer in the early 80s, I spent my vacation in Makurdi where my aunt lived. In all those travels, never did the center of my worldview shift away from Nnobi. Until I began to fill forms for West African School Certificate (WASC) and Joint Admission and Examination Board (JAMB), nothing made me think I could leave Nnobi.
Nnobi was more than a physical home for me. It was my spiritual home. It was a place where my ancestors lived. More importantly, it was a place where my grandfather made his mark. I came back to Nnobi in the late 70s and I was eager to absorb my heritage. I finished my primary school at the famous Nnobi Central School and went on to the irreplaceable Nnobi High School. It was during the fun-filled 80s and there was really nothing like home. The richness of Nnobi became my riches, the politics became my politics and the flavor also became mine. I was a consummate Nnobian before I left Nnobi.
When I left Nnobi for the Federal University of Technology, Akure, where I beheld Nigeria, I found that Nnobi had prepared me for what I saw. In more ways than one, Nnobi is a mini - Nigeria. Nnobi is divided into three main villages - Ngo, Awuda and Ebenesi. One group could easily take the place of the Igbo, the other the Hausa-Fulani and the third the Yoruba. Within these villages are politics and issues that closely resemble the Nigerian experience. In recent years, Awuda had been threatening to secede from Nnobi. And one of its prominent sons has been fighting to become the Igwe many years before the ruling Igwe Edmond Ezeokoli II joined his ancestors.
I come from Ndam. It is one of the three clans in Ngo village. The others are Umuegbu, and Umuagu. Ndam has no school, no post office and no road. Ndam has one kindergarten where kids spend their day singing "aka-beke-gbue…" Ndam is at the boarder with Alor. Most of its landscape is being swallowed by gullies. Buildings are falling in and families are being displaced. The official masquerade of Ndam is called Nkwasi Nkwa. When translated, it means something that pushes down obstacles. The obstacles facing Nnobi are seemingly beyond what Nkwasi Nkwa can push away.
Nnobi has three major institutions - the Catholic Church as represented by Madonna Catholic Church, the Anglican Church as represented by St. Simon's Church, and Chief Zebrudaya Okolo Igwe Nwogbo, alias 4: 30. The Catholic and Anglican Churches are our own Muslim and Christian divide. The Catholic Church would excommunicate a member who allowed his or her daughter to marry an Anglican. Mere walking into an Anglican church would bar a catholic from receiving communion until he or she undergoes "opipia". The Catholics run the Boys Scout while the Anglicans run the Boys Brigade. Catholic mothers join the Mambo dance while the Anglican mothers join the Awelenma dance.
Surrounding Nnobi and sharing the same Idemili tropical rain forest are towns like Nnokwa, Alor, Uke, Awka Etiti and Nnewi. Just like South Africa is when compared to Nigeria in the continent of Africa, Nnewi towers above Nnobi in our side of Anambra. But like any one would tell you, it is in Nnobi that the potentials are. But why is Nnobi the town that is struggling the most? Why is Nnobi with lots of educated citizens the one that is still battling with issues of fundamental development? Why are the roads to Nnobi one of the worst in Idemili Local Government Area? Why are Nnobi intellectuals like Dr. Edwin Madunagu uninterested in the fate of Nnobi? Why are Nnobi businessmen and women agonizing at the bottom of their class? How shall we return Nnobi to its glorious days when it brought Christianity, Western education and modernization to its neighbors?
These are the questions Nnobi people all over the globe are beginning to ask. Those at home recently resorted to the burning of all the shrines of their forefathers with the hope of chasing away evil spirits which they blamed for Nnobi failures. Nnobians in the USA will try to answer these same questions when they meet at the first Nnobi-USA General Meeting slated for July 4th weekend in Minnesota. There participants will try to reawaken in themselves the meaning of the Abalukwu Nnobi symbol - a man carrying an elephant on his head and crushing a lion with his feet.
It is in the star of Nnobi for each generation to confront the challenges of their time and triumph. Usually, it begins with a gathering like the one planned for Independence Day weekend in Minnesota. Though Nigeria may not want its National Conference yet, but Nnobi, my Nnobi, is well on its way.
Written by by Rudolf Okonkwo.
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